July 31, 2025 bachelor insider
Aaron Erb Gets Candid About Dating Struggles: ‘Putting Myself in Timeout’
Keeping it real.
Bachelor Nation got to know Noah Erb’s twin brother Aaron Erb on Season 21 of “The Bachelorette.”
Since his time on the show, Aaron has kept fans updated with his life on social media.
This week, Aaron took to TikTok to share an update about his post-show dating life and he got candid with his posts.
In a new video, he sat on a bench in the corner and wrote, “Putting myself in timeout because I started getting excited about someone who doesn’t even like me back.”
And alongside the video, Aaron wrote, “Modern dating is slowly making me jaded I swear.”
The video quickly raked in thousands of views and fans commented things like, “Me every single time” and “This is so real.”
Shortly after, Aaron shared another video on TikTok about how he plans to show up in a relationship.
He said, “I will never be a nonchalant guy. If I’m into you, you will know it. There will be signs. I am going to be excited to talk to you, I am going to be looking forward to hearing from you, I might text you back right away because I have my phone on me.”
Aaron went on, saying, “I’m gonna tell you good morning, good night, and ask you how you’re day is going. I am going to put in effort to make myself available to communicate with you. I’m not going to sit around and act like I don’t care and try to play it cool because I do care.”
For now, Aaron said he is taking time to “water his own grass” so when he does meet the right person, he will “have a lot of fruit to give to them.”
We hope Aaron finds that special someone soon and we’re sending him lots of love in the meantime.
