April 14, 2026 bachelor insider
Becca Tilley Gets Candid About Aging After Over a Decade as an Influencer: ‘I Compare Myself’
Keeping it real.
Bachelor Nation fans first met Becca Tilley on Season 19 of “The Bachelor” back in 2015, and she later returned for Season 20.
Since her time on the show, Becca has found love off-screen with her fiancée, Hayley Kiyoko.
The two have been together for around eight years and love keeping fans up to date with their lives on social media.
This week, Becca took to Instagram for a Q&A, where a fan asked how she navigates aging and the pressure to look a certain way after being in the public eye for over a decade.
Becca got candid in her response, writing, “Aging is so weird because you watch it happen to people older than you and think you're somehow going to escape the process. Then you reach a certain age and start noticing things changing. I'm in a balance of doing things to make myself feel good and look good, and I guess ‘maintain’ for vanity purposes, while also knowing I can't stop time or the natural process of getting older.”
She continued, “I respect any way people choose to do it, whether they let themselves age naturally or choose to do what I do (Botox, facials, treatments). It's all a personal choice. Some days I compare myself, and some days I don't even think about it.”
Becca concluded by sharing what helps her stay grounded and confident.
“Overall, I'm very content and feel great about how I feel and look. I also have a partner who makes me feel amazing about myself no matter what my body looks like, and that's honestly a feeling of safety and security like no other,” she said.
We love Becca and Hayley’s relationship, and we know her honesty will help others feel a little less alone.
