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Abigail Heringer Shares Honest Timeline for Having Kids with Noah Erb: ‘My Body is in Whiplash’
Keeping it real.
Bachelor Nation fan-favorite couple Abigail Heringer Erb and Noah Erb famously met on Season 7 of “Bachelor in Paradise” and fell in love.
Since their time on the show, Abigail and Noah have been sharing their lives together on social media and settling into their life in Tulsa, Oklahoma.
In 2024, the two got married in a stunning garden ceremony in Tulsa, and expanded their family with their two dogs, Maki and Velvet.
Now, Abigail is getting candid and sharing her honest thoughts about deciding when to start a family with Noah.
In a new video online, the Bachelor Nation star revealed she’s been having conflicting feelings about wanting to have kids while still enjoying the chapter she and Noah are currently in.
She said, “I always said that Noah and I, we wanted to be married for a year before we had kids. We really just wanted to enjoy marriage. We really enjoy spending time with just us two. And I think I'm almost preparing myself, mourning the chapter that we’re in now when we have kids. I know it’s going to be much better, but like, it’s just so good right now that I’m just like, ah I just want to soak it all in.”
Abigail also candidly shared that she didn’t expect this current chapter to feel as emotionally weird as it does.
“On one hand, you feel really rushed, like you need to make all these big decisions now. You need to decide okay when do you want to have kids? Make sure you have enough time and get a plan in place,” she expressed. “But then on the other flip, it’s a weird feeling of okay, I need to slow down. I need to enjoy this chapter that Noah and I are in because it is the last time that it’s gonna be just us two.”
Abigail reassured that she’s very excited to have a child of her own. But at the same time, will sometimes “psych [herself] out” due to “polarizing” opinions around motherhood.
“I’ve been trying to be very present and enjoy and soak it all in. And I just feel like my body is in whiplash right now,” she confessed.
We are sending our love to Abigail and Noah. We know they will do what is best for them, and we support them always!
