January 18, 2023 • bachelor insider
Becca Tilley Reveals If She Ever Considered Breaking Up with Hayley Kiyoko Instead of Coming Out
Keeping it real.
Last May, Bachelor Nation star Becca Tilley confirmed her longtime relationship with singer Hayley Kiyoko in Hayley’s “Bachelorette”-themed music video.
Since then, the two have been sharing more and more of their relationship on social media after keeping their relationship private for their first four years together.
Now, Becca is answering fan questions in an Instagram Q&A and revealed some insight about her relationship and coming out journey.
One fan asked Becca if she ever thought about “ending things with Hayley because the thought [of] coming out was scary.”
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Becca got candid and said, “No — I always thought not being with her was scarier than the coming out/being public part.”
In another slide, Becca continued on the topic, saying, “I was always so scared to announce my relationship because I wondered ‘what will people think?’ So I understand the feeling. But life is moving so fast. We spend so much time worrying about others’ opinions at the expense of our own joy.”
And while this past year was a big one for Becca both personally and professionally, one fan asked whether she had any regrets.
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Becca kept it real, saying “I try not to live my life with regrets.. especially when it comes to decisions about vanity, but I will say this.. If someone said ‘you can go back and choose one thing to do differently in 2022... what do you choose?’ I would choose not cutting my hair. LOL!”
We love Becca’s hair either way! And more importantly, we love how honest and open she is with her followers.
We know her vulnerability and candidness will continue to help so many others!
