August 26, 2024 • bachelor insider
EXCLUSIVE: Abigail Heringer & Noah Erb Reveal Which Bachelor Nation Stars Will Be at their Wedding and How Many Kids They Want!
Spilling the tea.
Last August, “Bachelor in Paradise” couple Noah Erb and Abigail Heringer got engaged.
The couple is currently settling into their life in Tulsa, Oklahoma, renovating their home, and getting excited about their wedding.
The two are planning their intimate Oklahoma wedding for this fall, and they just stopped by for an exclusive chat with BachelorNation.com to discuss their ceremony details.
Check out our full interview with the soon-to-be husband and wife below.
Bachelor Nation: We are so excited for your wedding day! Can you tease anything about what the wedding vibes will be?
Noah Erb: The goal for us is to show Tulsa a little bit. No one really knows what it is or what’s cool and fun about it. The goal is to show the old-fashioned Roaring ’20s vibes of Tulsa, which used to be a big thing. We are using all local vendors and keeping it all very Tulsa. We want to give people a taste of what it is like where we live because nobody knows.
BN: That sounds amazing! Will any of your fellow Bachelor Nation stars be in attendance?
Abigail Heringer: The ones that we were close with on the show will all be there. My best friend Chelsea Vaughn will be there, Ivan Hall will be there, Becca Kufrin and Thomas Jacobs, Blake Moynes, Zac Clark, and Joe Amabile and Serena Pitt.
NE: The theme for the whole wedding, including who will be there from Bachelor Nation, is the people who we as a couple have really gotten to know and gone on trips with and really gotten to know. Because it’s an intimate wedding, it’s people who we really have gotten to form relationships with.
BN: That makes sense, and we can’t wait for that mini reunion at your wedding! Abi, can you tease anything about finding your wedding dress?
AH: I knew my dress was the one even before trying it on in person. I found it on Instagram and I knew I needed to go to L.A. to try it on. I had a good gut feeling and knew it was the one, and I was right!
BN: Abigail, we are so excited for your new book to come out next month as well. Can you tell us about how you’re incorporating some accessibility for your hearing loss into your wedding?
AH: We are definitely going to work on the surround sound and the music for both the ceremony and the reception. We are also focusing on seat placement and whatnot for our dinner format. We were strategic in the way we did it so I am able to see all of our guests for lip reading and whatnot. The route that we went with music will be the most beneficial for me to be able to hear and enjoy it. It’s all live music because that’s easier for me to enjoy.
NE: And with the speeches, we are going to have a camcorder that goes around so we will have a lot of personal stuff that she can watch later!
BN: That all sounds incredible and so special. Looking ahead at the future, have you thought about how many kids you guys would like to have one day? We know Noah, you come from a big family of 10 siblings.
NE: That would be a hard one to pull off! I think we’ve said we want three to five kids. I don’t know how my parents did it with so many kids. Three to five with a couple of dogs sounds excellent.
AH: Yeah, three to five is ideal! I definitely could not do 11. We would love to have twins too, like Noah is a twin, but I would say no more than five kids total.
BN: And speaking of your twin, Noah, how has it been seeing your brother on-screen on “The Bachelorette”?
NE: It was somewhat challenging seeing him involved in some drama, but obviously I want him to do his thing and I want him to have his journey all on his own. It is funny seeing him be in the weeds a little bit, but I’m super stoked for him and I’m glad to see him do things the way he does them. I am not sure if he’ll go to “Paradise.” Maybe if he’s single and not flying F-16s. But either way, it’s been fun watching him even if not everything is how you expect it to be and there’s some drama. It’s still fun.
BN: Absolutely. Well, thank you both for chatting with us and we can’t wait for your big day so soon! Congrats in advance!