March 20, 2025 • bachelor insider
Abigail Heringer Shares How Moving to Tulsa Was a Struggle: ‘What Do I Do Now?’
A new chapter.
Bachelor Nation fan-favorite couple Abigail Heringer and Noah Erb famously met and fell in love on Season 7 of “Bachelor in Paradise.”
Since their time on the show, Abigail and Noah have been sharing their lives together on social media and keeping fans up to date on their adventures.
The couple tied the knot last year and have been settling into their life in Tulsa, Oklahoma, and renovating their home.
Now, Abigail has taken to her Instagram Stories to share more about their lives in Tulsa and how the move wasn’t completely smooth sailing at first.
In response to a fan asking whether she’s struggled moving to their new home, Abigail replied that it took a little bit to get adjusted in the beginning.
She said, “There was a transitional period in the beginning of like ‘what do I do now?’ I had been so used to the big city life of the constant hustle and bustle and endless places to eat / drink / party so when life slowed down I was scrambling to figure out what my hobbies and passions were at the end of the day as I never had time to explore this part of my life. Cue a slight life existential crisis lol.”
Abigail continued and revealed how the change of pace has ended up being a good thing for her and something she’d been craving.
“Tulsa has slowed me down in the best way. It was something I personally was craving as I was stressed too often and burnt out. So once I figured out what my passions were and what I wanted to dive into more - I’ve been busier than ever doing all the things I love!”
The Bachelor Nation star then shared how she’s realized that living in a quieter environment has been really beneficial for her.
“I thrive in a quieter environment lol maybe that’s just my frontal lobe finally being developed,” she joked.
We always love hearing about Abigail and Noah’s lives together and we’re so happy that Abigail is now thriving in Tulsa!
