Bachelor Nation fans got to know Onyeka Ehie on Season 23 of “The Bachelor” and Season 6 of “Bachelor in Paradise.”

After her time on the show, Onyeka found love with Martin Fredsgaard Andersen from Denmark and the two announced their engagement in April 2024. 

The two ended up getting married, but now Onyeka has taken to social media to reveal that she has separated from him after finding out that he’s allegedly a professional con artist. 

In a TikTok video posted last week, she shared, “I made the grave mistake of marrying a professional, international criminal con artist. And I wanted to share with you guys the lessons I have learned.” 

She shared, “Don’t be too trusting. Trust should be earned and not given out like free samples. It’s OK to give someone the benefit of the doubt, but what you cannot do is give someone blind access to your resources, your life or your heart without them showing signs of consistency.”

The Bachelor Nation star then made a 25-part series where she explained how she fell for her ex and his “Danish deception.”  

She said it all started when they randomly met while on a vacation in Croatia in 2022. The two instantly formed an attraction and consistently talked on Instagram. After a few weeks, Martin invited Onyeka to join him for a trip to Monaco, and she accepted.

Shortly after, they started dating, seeing each other regularly, and met each other’s families. During this time, the two quickly fell in love and ultimately decided to get married at a courthouse. Onyeka mentioned that also during this time, she began lending Martin money to help cover trip and home expenses, despite him claiming to be an Olympic athlete from a royal family. 

“He had said that the house [he was selling] had closed and that he was just waiting for the funds,” she said. “He said that he was about to set up a transfer for me for the money he owed me, which was about $10,000 at that point.” 

Onyeka went on to detail how the Danish tax agency began investigating his business and personal accounts, so she became their sole financial provider. Later, the two spent the holidays in Denmark and Martin’s best friend revealed that Martin had a gambling addiction.

“When I heard this, I was in full panic mode. I’m questioning everything,” Onyeka confessed. After she confronted her husband, Onyeka found out that he had been gambling money and owed one of their friends $200,000. 

After a while, the two ended up getting divorced and Onyeka found out that he had also taken money from her family as well. “It was the most heartbreaking moment in my entire life. My little sister is my world, and to know he took advantage of her, was just so heartbreaking. At that moment, I, 100 percent, fell out of love with him,” she said. 

Onyeka ended her series revealing their divorce was finalized earlier this month, and she expressed how excited she is to now move on with her life.