January 30, 2026 pillow talk
Jenn Tran Claps Back at Men Who Buy Dinner and Expect Something Afterward: ‘You Can’t Buy My Love’
Calling them out.
Bachelor Nation fans got to know and love Jenn Tran on Season 28 of “The Bachelor” and again on Season 21 of “The Bachelorette.”
Since her time on the shows, the former Bachelorette competed on “Dancing with the Stars” and started a relationship with dance partner Sasha Farber.
The two eventually decided to split, and Jenn has been keeping fans updated with her life on social media ever since.
She’s recently started slowly dating again and this week took to social media to clap back at a man who bought her dinner and expected something more afterward.
Jenn shared, “I was out the other weekend at a bar. Me and my friend were sitting at dinner and these guys come and they sit next to us. And they end up paying for our dinner. Honestly, not a green flag or a red flag. I think that’s a yellow flag. I can afford my own dinner… But they offered and I was like sure you can have my dinner.”
She continued, “It’s what happens afterward, because I think there are multiple ways you can go about it. You can pay for the dinner and just be a gentleman and nothing can happen. However if you’re paying for the dinner and then you’re expecting something to come out of it, you’re disgusting. In my head I’m like why do you want to pay for my dinner? Is my husband really going to be out here buying random girls’ dinners? Do you know who pays for random girls’ dinners — insecure men because they want to flex their money and their big little wallets in my face.”
Jenn went on to explain that one of the men who paid for her dinner tried flirting with her while making some advances, and ended up being incredibly rude.
“You wanna know what he says to try and flirt with me? He goes, ‘Well yeah I definitely make more money than you,’” she shared. “Excuse me? There’s so many things wrong with this. Do you think you make more money than me because you’re a man and I’m a woman and I couldn’t possibly make as much money as you? That’s f*ing offensive. Did you really think that was going to get me in bed with you? Do you think this can be bought?”
Jenn said she left shortly after and the guy didn’t even say bye, just ignored her completely. She expressed, “Men who pay for your dinner and then expect something afterwards… Nooooo you can’t buy my love (unless it’s at the Chanel store).”
We are so proud of Jenn for standing up for herself and calling out inappropriate behavior. We know she will find someone wonderful.