July 28, 2023 • bachelor insider
20 Questions with Xavier: Find Out Who Inspires Him Most and His Bachelorette Advice
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Learn more about this Bachelor Nation star!
Fans are getting to know Xavier on Charity’s season of “The Bachelorette” and saw him receive a Hometowns date rose this week.
Now he’s opening up exclusively to BachelorNation.com, answering 20 rapid-fire questions.
Get to know Xavier a little better below!
1. A taboo topic I love talking about is: A taboo topic I love talking about is mental health.
2. I think a celebrity couple that is the definition of #relationshipgoals is: Denzel and Pauletta Washington!
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3. My guilty pleasure is: Ben and Jerry’s Cookie Dough ice cream 🤪
4. The best relationship advice I ever received was: Go after the woman who wants you, not the woman that you want.
5. My zodiac sign is ___________ and my most [insert zodiac sign] trait would be: My zodiac sign is Virgo and my most Virgo trait would be that I am hardworking.
6. My biggest pet peeve is: Slow walkers and drivers!
7. The first thing I do when I wake up is: The first thing I do when I wake up is go to the gym and blast music into my ears.
8. My last meal on earth would be: My grandma’s Thanksgiving mac ‘n’ cheese.
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9. The song that always gets me pumped up is: “Faneto” by Chief Keef.
10. My hidden talent is: I can move my Adam’s apple up and down really fast.
11. The person that inspires me the most is: My mom! She is so smart, funny, and my biggest cheerleader.
12. The movie I’ve rewatched the most is: “Superbad”!
13. My favorite emoji is: The bat 🦇
14. The last thing I Googled is: How to become an excellent plant dad.
15. Being on “The Bachelorette” taught me: A ton about relationships and confidence in a partner.
16. My celebrity crush is: Jorja Smith.
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17. My advice for anyone who goes on “The Bachelorette” is: Bring a journal and develop some sort of writing ritual.
18. If you go on “The Bachelorette,” don’t forget to pack: A warm jacket so when you go to the beach on a cold day with nothing but a Speedo on you can stay warm.
19. Something I still have from my time on “The Bachelorette” is: The gray wig!
20. Where do you see yourself in 5 years? I see myself running my own company and taking care of business.