October 02, 2025 bachelor insider
20 Questions with Carla: Find Out Her Biggest Pet Peeve and Where She Sees Herself in 5 Years
Learn more about this Bachelor Nation star!
Fans got to know Carla on Mel’s season of “The Golden Bachelor,” and now she’s opening up exclusively to BachelorNation.com, answering 20 rapid-fire questions.
Get to know Carla a little better below!
1. A taboo topic I love talking about is: Racism. It’s not something I love talking about, but it’s crucial to have open conversations about systemic issues and work towards understanding and change. Plus, it’s important to confront these uncomfortable topics to make a difference.
2. I think a celebrity couple that is the definition of #relationshipgoals is: Barack and Michelle Obama embody the ultimate relationship goals! Their partnership serves as a master class in love, respect, and mutual support. I simply love them together.
3. My guilty pleasure is: One of my guilty pleasures is popcorn that I pop in my air popper. After it’s freshly popped, I drizzle it with olive oil and add a dash of sea salt. It’s a treat that I find impossible to resist! I eat each kernel one at a time.
4. The best relationship advice I ever received was: Seek counseling. Reflecting on my past, I realize that I didn’t use counseling in my first marriage. Perhaps if I had, we might still be together. Seeking professional guidance could have provided the tools necessary for better communication and understanding.
5. My zodiac sign is ___________ and my most [insert zodiac sign] trait would be: As a Pisces, intuition is my guiding force. I have a natural ability to sense things before they unfold. All I have to do is trust my instincts more. It’s like having an inner compass leading me through life’s adventures, keeping things exciting and full of surprises.
6. My biggest pet peeve is: When people dominate conversations by talking only about themselves. Although it often stems from insecurity, it still drives me crazy. Conversations should be balanced, allowing everyone to share their stories and perspectives, rather than feeling like a monologue.
7. The first thing I do when I wake up is: Daydream while staring out the window. It’s a peaceful moment where my thoughts wander freely, setting a positive tone for the day ahead. After that, I stretch in bed a little. Then, I have a glass of water. Finally, I plan my day, organizing tasks and setting goals to ensure I’m productive and focused. My day usually begins at the gym, where I can kickstart my energy and motivation.
8. My last meal on earth would be: My daughter, Nayanna, would cook my last meal. She’s a talented cook, and I’d let her surprise me with whatever she chooses. It’s not merely about the meal, but the moments spent together. Her presence is a cherished gift I’d want to hold onto in my last moments while enjoying a meal prepared by her.
9. The song that always makes me want to dance is: “Rock Steady” by Aretha Franklin — irresistible groove!
10. My hidden talent is: My hidden talent is that it’s still hidden. While I haven’t quite pinpointed what it is yet, I have a feeling it’s something that will surprise even me.
11. The most famous person who I’d love to meet is: Barack Obama, without question! His charisma, leadership, and global influence are absolutely inspiring. Witnessing his presidency as the first Black president during my lifetime was truly a joy.
12. My favorite emoji is: My favorite emoji is the ❤️ heart emoji. I use it frequently because it perfectly conveys love, warmth, and appreciation in a single symbol.
13. The last thing I Googled is: The last thing I Googled was my name. It’s good to know what’s out there. I might learn something new about myself. LOL
14. The movie I’ve rewatched the most is: “Lady Sings the Blues.” It’s a captivating love story with superb performances by Diana Ross, Billy Dee Williams, and Richard Pryor. Diana Ross’ portrayal of Billie Holiday is powerful and poignant. The film’s storytelling and soundtrack keep me coming back, making it a timeless favorite.
15. My favorite part of being on “The Golden Bachelor” was: Being on “The Golden Bachelor” was an extraordinary experience, and what I loved most was the profound sense of inclusion it provided. Although my journey on the show was brief, it offered me an invaluable opportunity to see myself represented. As a woman of color, feeling acknowledged and having a sense of belonging is incredibly important.
16. Being on “The Golden Bachelor” taught me: Invaluable lessons about handling rejection and embracing self-worth. It’s important to remember that rejection is often not personal; there are numerous factors at play that influence decisions. Instead of letting someone else’s choice define your value, recognize that you are unique and special — like a unicorn. What feels like rejection is often just life’s way of clearing a path for opportunities that are truly meant for you. Embrace the journey, and trust that something wonderful lies ahead.
17. My celebrity crush is: Lenny Kravitz. Period.
18. My advice for anyone who goes on “The Golden Bachelor” in the future is: Embrace the fast-paced experience. Stay flexible, enjoy the adventure, and don’t get bogged down by minor details. Keep a lighthearted approach, have fun, and don’t take things personally.
19. Something I still have from my time on “The Golden Bachelor” is: I’ve kept a few cherished mementos from the show. My cheerleading outfit serves as a reminder of the fun camaraderie with my fellow contestants. And Peg’s thoughtful gift bag was a lovely gesture for all of us.
20. Where do you see yourself in five years? I see myself deeply in love, sharing my life with someone truly special. I aspire to create a future rich in mutual respect, joy, and shared aspirations. As I look forward to this love, I’m thrilled to welcome new adventures, whether they come through meaningful relationships, career opportunities, or personal accomplishments. Here’s to a future filled with love, laughter, and limitless possibilities!