Spilling the tea.

Rachel Lindsay and Bryan Abasolo famously got engaged on Season 13 of “The Bachelorette” and the two married in 2019. But after more than four years of marriage, Bryan filed for divorce. 

Rachel recently spoke out about their divorce for the first time on the “Bachelor Happy Hour” podcast and has been revealing shocking information on what occurred.

Now, in part two of her interview, the former Bachelorette dished on having to provide spousal support and revealed that Bryan convinced her not to get a prenup beforehand.

While sharing more information about what happened after he filed for divorce, Rachel reflected on the interview Bryan did with a divorce coach shortly afterward.

“He said things in that interview that I had never even personally talked about,” she said. “He talked about fertility and it wasn’t even the truth of what he was saying. Like, I never, other than saying I wanted to have kids, I’ve never talked about that. Like, nobody knows the story with that. And I was just like, ‘That’s low.' I was like, ‘Wow.’ And even the timing of all of that, it was advertised as, like, ‘Oh, it’s going to be this three-part thing.’ It was a week after he was awarded temporary support. So, it’s, like, you just got — and all this is public — you just got awarded like $13,000 a month. Why are you now putting out this video? It just, all of it was — I kept thinking, ‘I can’t be surprised about anything else that comes out.’ And then something else would happen and it was like, ‘My gosh!’”

Rachel continued, “Everything, it would just shock me for that whole 2024. Stuff just kept happening. And I kept saying, ‘Who is this person?’ People were like, ‘What did she do to him for him to be acting this way?’ And I can only fall on: he was harboring all these feelings about me that I have absolutely no idea, because what else could motivate you to act in such a way?” 

Rachel then touched on why they didn’t get a prenup before getting married and revealed that she originally advocated for it.

“There’s a lot that gets lost in the prenup conversation. So, at the time that we were going to get married, it was 2019, we were way more on equal footing. I didn’t have the success that I had,” she shared. “He owned a condo in Miami. He was older, so he had built up more of a savings than I had. So when I said, ‘Hey, I think we should get a prenup,’ and he explained his reason why [we shouldn’t]… It’s easy to say, you would say, it would be a deal-breaker for you when you don’t have that person.”

“When you’re at that crossroads, you’re planning your wedding, it’s again some of the things about the societal pressure, some other things surrounding it, that I was like, ‘I don’t want this to be the reason that we don’t make it,’” she confessed. “Because you never think that the person is capable of doing what happened to me. Never in my wildest dreams did I think that, nor did I have the success that I had. And if I did get that, I thought we would both have it. I could never have projected that our careers would be so different. That the disparity would be so great between us. I don’t think he saw it that way at the time either. We believed in each other. I believed in him, he believed in me. And so yeah, I said, ‘I think we should get it.’ He said, ‘No.’ I didn’t want that to be the reason, so I just was like, ‘Okay, fine. Fine, we won’t get a prenup.’” 

Hear more of what Rachel had to say in the full episode of “Bachelor Happy Hour” below!