Opening up.

Rachel Lindsay and Bryan Abasolo famously found love and got engaged on Season 13 of “The Bachelorette.”

The two have since gotten married and live in Los Angeles together with their dog.

Since their time on the show, Rachel has become an extremely successful television and podcast host, and even wrote her own book.

As for Bryan, he’s opened his own chiropractic clinic and hosts the “Talking It Out with Bachelor Nation” podcast.

And while the power couple couldn’t be going stronger, fans still want to know more about their relationship.

Rachel just took to both Instagram and her blog “Honestly, Rach” to discuss why they keep their relationship more private and off the grid.

She shared a series of photos and videos of the two of them from over the years and wrote that on her posts, “Everyone is always asking ‘Where is Bryan?’”

And in her blog post, Rachel revealed the truth.

The former Bachelorette said, “The most common questions I get on social media are: where is Bryan and when are you having babies?”

Rachel went on, saying, “Let me be frank, Bryan is none of your business. I am joking…. well half joking. I totally understand the reasoning behind the inquiries, the curiosity, and the interest. We met on a reality television show centered on finding love. The audience became invested in our story, our love, and our future.”

And while Rachel understands the investment in their relationship, she said, “So quite naturally, the audience wants to know what we are doing, if we are okay, and what is next for our future. They want the love story to still play out for their public perception. But our contractual public story ended on August 7, 2017. At that point, we decided that we wanted to control the future of our relationship.”

Rachel posed an interesting thought to her readers about the correlation between how much a couple posts and their actual happiness as a couple.

She wrote, “It is interesting to me that people want to define the success and happiness of our relationship by the number of social media posts, comments, likes, and stories we post. By carefully choosing what we want to disclose…we stay true to who we are as a couple. It is so easy to fall into the social media trap as an indicator to the status one’s relationship. But how many times have you seen a couple post about their love and happiness only to announce their breakup 2 days later on that same platform?”

And at the beginning of their relationship, Rachel remembers feeling pressure to perform for social media and how it had a negative impact on their relationship.

So now, she says, “So, when the days, weeks, and maybe even months go by without a social media post of Rachel and Bryan…don’t worry. We are good over here privately cherishing our love and building a future as one san social media.”